Younger Women Dating Older Men
It is a known fact that women, in general, are attracted to older men and will date men that are a few years older than themselves. If a woman is thirty, she'll probably date a man in his forties and so on. So what is it that draws women to these older guys?
Most women will admit that they want a strong man who can stand his own ground and be confident; and generally speaking, many women appreciate the maturity of an older man. It's no secret that the qualities that women are looking for in their future husbands are the same qualities that men slightly older than them display. Most women assume that older men are well trained at being a gentleman, are more civilized and more capable of providing for and supporting whoever they are with. They also feel older men have probably been married or at least have gone through a lot of different relationships, have learned how to treat a woman and how to give her what she wants and/or needs.
When it comes to dating younger men, many women feel that these guys still have a sense of immaturity about them and that they don't know what it means to really treat a woman. It’s a well-known fact that women mature faster than men, and if a woman wants to date an older guy, it's probably because she's had her fill of the 23-year-old party animal who still believes he’s invincible and can't even remember her name. Mature, younger women, who are no longer interested in dealing with the games and attitudes of younger guys appreciate an older man's life experiences and the fact that they're over many of the games they may have played in their younger years. Also, if a younger woman is ready to start a family, she feels older men might settle down sooner.
In the discussion of older men younger women dating, there are some women who will argue that older men only ask them out because they take longer to grow up and mature or only want a trophy girlfriend on their arm to boost their ego. Another argument to dating younger women is that older men miss out on meeting a mature, wise and appreciative woman their own age. While this may be true in some cases, in reality, most older men who date younger women do so because they feel that women younger than them have more energy, spontaneity and less dating baggage. They simply want to feel rejuvenated and youthful again and make their sex life more adventurous.
The real disadvantages to this type of relationship for an older man dating a younger woman is that there may be a difference in the energy levels between the two of them. The age difference can cause a big difference in interests such as music, social activities and morals. If an older man doesn't keep up with the younger woman or perhaps loses his financial stability and/or health, a gold digger might lose interest in him and leave him rather quickly.
Ultimately, older men dating younger women must be able to deal with the attitudes of others who stare, those who comment about the age difference, the negative attitudes of those who just disapprove, and the many other challenges they may be faced with. Older men younger women dating can be wonderful as long as both of you know what you are looking for and where you want to go with it before you get too involved.
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I would never feel anything for a man the age of my father. But i guess a 5-8 years age difference is okay between the man and woman. Some things that attract woman to older men are their maturity, wisdom, experience, discipline and sense of responsibility. If an older man and younger woman are comfortable together then i guess age should not be a problem.
Great minds think alike...................................................
Sorry, I don't agree with the thrust of the article. Difference of 10 years does not make a man older. In my opinion, the minimum difference must be at least 20 years that will make it May-September relationship. Of course, I don't believe in May-December relationship unless I want to buy a book that will be read by others.
Again, a gold digger might terminate the relationship once the interest has been served - and whether the man is young or old.
Well,age doesn't matter and for me I will choose older than me because they are more matured than younger. :)
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I'm nearly 30 and date a man that is 29 years older than me and it is fantastic! Great conversation, endless things in common, he knows how to treat a woman and is always gentleman. I couldn't be happier, we do everything together and really enjoy each others company....oh, and I make more money than he does and yes, the sex is awesome :P
I totally agree with this article. I have always gotten very annoyed with the immaturity of men my own age. I am now married to a man 20 years older than me. Everything is fabulous, but the energy level is a factor, so beware of that. With any relationship there are positives and negatives, and I would personally take an older man over one my own age any day.
i am now dating a man 18 yrs older than me and i must say that i love it. i am 23 he is 41. everyone thinks its too much cause i am so young but i am not a regular 23 yr old. i already have a 3 yr old. i have a stable job and i am finishing school. he is amazing, works hard and has 3 kids of his own. i keep him young and he keeps me wise i always say. plus the sex is amazing. we are very compatible. age is just a number!!!
I would have to agree with all that the article has stated. I am currently dating a man that is 20 years older then me and I AM COMPLETELY HEAD OVER HEELS. There are no problem IN ANY area and to be honest i wouldn't trade what we have for anything younger or at that anyone else. Younger women love older guys for serveal reasons and MONEY is no factor in that.
I am 23 and my boyfriend is 38 and I must say that I've never ever dated a guy this old, however I absolutely love everything about our relationship. I'm not your average 23 year old because I'm extremely mature for my age. I keep my babe young and he definitely calms me down in so many ways. And the sex life is so amazing to the tenth power . Also I have no kids and he has 1 son, but we will soon get married and have kids of our own. Older is so much better and when its too old just know that it's really just a number and society has us believing that you should around your age or couple of years older to be considered normal but thats not true. Live your life and follow ur heart because u don't know who u will fall in love with and it may just be someone u least expected such as my case bit we are madly in love with each other and our relationship is getting more exciting each day that passes.
this is why there is no senior men for us women 50 and older
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Hi, I'm Victoria and I am 19 years old and my boyfriend whom I’m in love with is 33. He doesnt act 33 at all though, he seems like a big kid, like he’s 22 and he doesnt LOOK 33, so that’s a good thing! He makes me extremely happy and he makes me laugh more than I ever have before! He’s a great provider. I love that he is a man and he knows what he wants. He’s really sweet and handsome. He gives me everything I want and need, but I’m wondering….. Is he too old for me? I mean, my family would be like what are you doing with this man??? Is he your sugar daddy? because I’ve had sugar daddies before and he knows that but he isn’t, I love him, we’re in a relationship. And it would hurt me if my family said something like that and I want to marry him. I just moved in with him and my family does not know that yet, I'm actually waiting to tell them. Please reply… HELP ME!
I've always dated guys older than me (say 5 to 8 years) however now I'm seeing a man 20 years my senior (I'm in my thirties) and so far so good. Thanks for sharing the information.
age is just a number
im 26, ive been in a relationship for last 3 and half years with a man 22 years older than me we have a kid, we knew each other for few years before we went out, I never would have expected things to work out as they had, we were completly in love things were great, age was never a prob in the begining now the energy thing is one small problem,but whats a big problem is when we argue its like having a dad and never any chance to leave home, he always think he knows more and a lot of the time he does but he dosnt respect my opinions they dont seem to matter as he is so older and wiser than me, i feel so trapped,
One of my friends in college ended up marrying this guy who she wouldn't even give the time day to. This creepy guy is 16 years her senior, ex-felon and served as the campus drug dealer while attending school. He studied her very well..leared what she liked and what she didn't like and most importantly he understood her vulnerabilities. Nonetheless she ended up marrying this guy..she abandoned her friends..her life goals and objectives and totally gave up on making her own dreams come true. Earlier on in the relationship he would move her from one small town/community to the next making sure she was kept at great distances from her family and what few friends she had left. He also made sure that these communities served primarily retirees so he wouldn't have to worry about competition from younger more attractive males. Currently they reside in a small city..where they live off the proceeds of his drug dealing..living well above their means of ordinary hard working people In the end we come to recognize that she wanted a father figure..someone to spoil her and take care of her..someone to make decisions and tell her what to do. We are all saddened by this tragic story because we all knew and understood her potential. Before she met him she was such an amazing person..fun to be with, forward thinking, independent, opinionated and open-minded. Now she's a trophy wife totally under his control..and more than likely has already given birth to his kids. We don't ever see the lightbulb going off for her..she's a lost soul just barely clinging to happiness. Worst of all she let go of her true soulmate, a mutual friend of ours, BIG MISTAKE! We all know she has this void in her heart..if I were her I'd seek my true soulmate and live life they way it was destined before she met him.
Stephanie wake up! Your not happy. Its not too late to live the life you were destined for. Find the one you really love and leave him. That old man has got you all twisted in the head..he's manipulating..controlling..and continually lying too you.
Older men are predators! They study you..they're very strategic..patient..and manipulative! They feed off of your vulnerabilities! Flowers money credit cards dinner gifts just so you can be eye candy. I've come to realize how ridiculous I must have looked dating a man almost as old as my father. The constant stares and whispering made it even more obvious. Worst of all I hated how people always assumed I was his daughter. He ruined me and took advantage of my best years. How did I allow this man to weasel his way into my life. Unfortunately I had kids with him..initially I felt trapped afraid to become a single mom without all that financial security he has always provided..but I wised up and began to see through his lies. I left him and have never felt so happy and complete. I'm catching up all that I missed out on while under his spell. Reconnected with people my age and those that I have so much more in common with. When I smile its for real. I hope to salvage relationships with family members and friends who tried to prevent me from making this mistake. The one thing that will put the icing on the cake is to find the one I let go..the one I truly love.
Older guys think about this..when you where in your teens she wasnt even conceived yet. When she became a teenager you were 30 year olds. In your 40s she was barely legal. By age 50 you had became her daddy-like husband. Reality check she'll be changing your diapers long after she has raised your kids. Let me guess you need viagra just to keep up. That's sad! How can you call yourself a man when you need male enhancements. Real men do not need help in the bedroom.
Younger women who end up with older men have daddy issues, are not sure about themselves and can't handle making it on their own.
Im with a older man, no dad issues, independent until this day. The fact is I love him and he loves me and thats all that matters. I strongly believe in enjoying life for the moment. No one knows what forever holds.
I can say with certainty, as a woman, if I were to date a man 20 years older, it would be because he's more financially stable and can offer me a better lifestyle than men my own age who grew up in my generation and still look youthful and gorgeous.
Men, don't kid yourselves on this one.
I am 26 and he is 56, divorced with two kids.I wonder what will be the outcome?
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